I am HOME alone....
and missing my Baby Girl and her Big Sister..
The little giggles and Mummy? questions are not as often...
Cos my Baby started school...yep she is officially a big school girl...
She has gone from being my baby to big girl so quick
She's been the cuddly one (was whiny too a lot of the time..I will explain)
She so loves to follow Big Sister around...
She is always happiest though on Mum or Dads knee...
Never wanting to be to far from me...it is so sweet & now we know why!
Especially when she says..'oh Mum I need you'..LOL. at 5yo
sometimes it annoyed me when I was cooking or such ,
trying not to trip over her in the kitchen,
or knock her over when I turn around...
I have many little burns from trying to
avoid burning her with hot pots in the kitchen..
Annoying too when I am carrying 10 bags of groceries home
and she needsto be picked up
and carried all the way home in tears...
I asked Why??? a lot of the time
Why was she not like my other kids?...
Why was she so clingy?...
Last year after hearing for the gazillionth time 'Mum my knees hurt'
I decided it was too much.....
I got serious after complaining often to a local doctor that I needed more help
I am sure he thought I was Neurotic....
I took her to the Doctors all the time as a baby
and had been telling them she complains about her knees.
Oh it's growing pains!..what in a 1yo ( she just cried lots then),
a 3yo or 4yo..no way... can't be I thought..
Not that I wanted something to be wrong with her BUT
this is not right...no way should she be complaining...
or me giving her paracetamol to much just to stop the crying...the silent pain
I have had four children and not heard this in the others.
I have a son who suffered growing pains but not like this
he complained at night and sometimes when he was tired after sports
But not like this...I carried Miss K all around all the time..
she complained day and night
When I went to the letterbox she'd say " carry me inside my legs hurt'
This is not a put on or attention like one Pediatrician liked to tell me.
This is a little girl who is so funny and cute who complained once to often.
After Numerous Ultrasound's, Xrays and scans...nothing... still lots of pain.
It's funny how things turn out though...meant to be...
I was walking up to school one day with another mum from school who was
always hearing 'my legs hurt' and she suggested I look at Hyper Extended joints...
she is a Remedial Therapist and wondered what could cause the joint pain.
As we had another Pediatrician's appointment the very next day I said
I would suggest it to them...
and I then googled it as soon as I got home as I do when
I am unsure of anything...LOL...
I went to the new Pediatrician, she sort of laughed, 'no no' she said......UNTIL
she checked Miss K's joints... she had 32 Hyper Extended joints that she could note...
Oh Dear...way too many, so then we had to visit Robyn...
yeah and answer to this soreness...
Robyn is Miss K's Physio..
an amazing lady who understands the condition Miss K has..
It's called Ehlers Danlos Syndrome... it's inherited and can cause all sorts..
DH and I are going to see the geneticist in May
to have some biopsy's done to find out more about this condition.
For now Miss K has not as much pain.... and loves School....
She has exercises to do from Robyn... which helps her core muscles...
Why am I telling you this... Miss K started school...yeah....
and after the last few years trials with her legs..we are excited for her...
she made it to school and is the big girl she aspires to be...
she still has a little pain but we do the exercises and she feels ok again...
Will it go away...NO but we know have things in place
so she will grow to be healthy happy young lady
and hopefully not suffer for it...
Thanks for getting this far.... and listening to me ramble ..
Off to pick up the Misses from school and Movie night tonight...yeah
I may do some stitching after... I so need my mojo back!
Happy Stitching
Hugs Dawn x x x x